I am me, mother of two adult children and grandmother of two. My son taught elementary grades in California and international foreign schools in China, South Korea and Oman for several years. When he returned to the U.S. he pursued his career in photography for awhile, and is now teaching in Southern California.. My daughter taught elementary grades in an international foreign school in Thailand, after teaching for three years in South Korea. My daughter is now in northern Oregon. At home, I have a spoiled dog; Shasta, a yellow lab who was born March 31, 2009 and came from the Humane Society to live with us in April of 2010. In May of 2019, I inherited two of my daughter’s cats – Nong Saio who is from Thailand, and Queso, who is from South Korea – you’ll note his Korean name :). She brought them home with her when she returned to the U.S. but when she married they had too many cats and had to do a population reduction. Hey Mom!
I have 5 acres of land, so I keep busy during the spring, summer and fall with yard work, although as the years pile up I am less interested in doing as much. I am a person of varying hobbies, playing with Photoshop Elements and digital scrapbooking, knitting, reading, alcohol ink painting as well as painting with acrylics. A few months ago I took up weaving on a rigid heddle loom, and that is my current obsession. I began to blog in the fall of 2009 as a way of posting pictures and keeping up with friends and family when we traveled back to Minnesota to visit my brother and his wife. Then I found several blogs by people whose writing style inspired me, and I was hooked.
In the summer of 2007, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and subsequently had a mastectomy, followed by four months’ chemotherapy treatments. There are residual effects; I lost my hair and was on a medication that completely blocks the production of estrogen for five years, so my hair will probably never again be what it was. It’s very thin and very fine. Husband was diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer early in December, 2008, when he was give three to five years to live. He died December 25, 2013, going beyond the five-year mark by 17 days. The last two of his years were shells of what his life had been, and were filled with pain and his regrets that he could no longer live as he wanted to. He is now at peace, he is now able to be himself again. I have realized how short life can be and I’m not a spring chicken anymore, so now I spend more time doing what I like to do and less doing what should be done. I appreciate this life, and all of the good things it gives me.
Thank you for visiting my site. I hope you enjoyed your visit and will return.
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Heeeey…when did you move here? I love the header pic!
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Thanks for stopping by my site. Its nice to find more and more new people through the challenge.
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Love your blog name and your spirit. Thanks for stopping by my little corner of the blogging world and leaving a comment. I really appreciate it! Off to visit your world.
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I like the quotation in your header. I recently wrote a thesis about ‘Les Misérables’ and remember this moment in the story. The sentence preceding your quotation tells us Cosette had begun to laugh, and ‘as she did so her whole appearance changed, its darkness was dispelled’.
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Wanderings of an Elusive Mind is a nice title. My mind, on the other hand, got lost a long time ago and I’m fine with that. Be well and thank you for sharing.
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Nice to know about you! Thanks for sharing about your life! I also have a black & white border collie named Bailey. So sorry about your breast cancer and everything you went through with that. I hope you’re all fine now!! 🙂
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Thank you for your visit. Fortunately my cancer was caught early and has been eradicated. I will be to that magic five-year mark in July. The experience has made me more aware of things around me, and I now find more joy in the slant of the light, the twitters of the birds, and in life in general. It is good.
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You have a very interesting blog, Carol. I look forward to read more of your post. Be blessed!
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Hi Carol – just FYI, I clicked on your gravatar in a comment you left on my site and then on your website link and got this: http://searchportal.information.com/?o_id=109073&domainname=www.mysiteontheweb.us … ?
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Oh, and I meant to ask – is your new photo your Wilson impression? (Home Improvements TV show – ?)
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Not familiar with Wilson (never watched Home Improvements), it was just messing around while shopping with friends, but I have decided I really don’t like that photo anyway.
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Oh, Wilson was the neighbour and throughout all the seasons his full face was never exposed – always half hidden by a fence, a coffe cup, a newspaper …. etc. so you see,your gravatar is a very good impression. 🙂
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Lynne, For a couple of years I had self-hosted my blog at mysiteontheweb.us – then decided it was a unnecessay expense. Obviously I messed up when I set up the new gravatar. Must fix. Thank you for telling me.
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Just wanted to pop by and say thanks for visiting my blog and my Weekly Photo Challenge post for this week. I’m going to take a look around your blog for a while.
Kate
http://myphotoyear2012.wordpress.com/
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Thank you for visiting, Kate. I hope you’ll visit again.
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God bless you as you continue to heal–I’m so glad you’re here!!
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Thank you. It is so good to be here.
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Hi, I nominated you: Wonderful Team Member Readership Award: http://simplycaptured9.wordpress.com/2012/09/04/wonderful-team-member-readership-award/
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Taniamend, thank you very much! I shall have to give this some thought.
Your kind thoughts are appreciated.
Carol
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Carol – Enjoy all the pictures. I found your comments at Speaking From The Heart, and left an employment contact for you in answer to your latest comment on Laurie Buchanan’s blog.
Good luck with your career!
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Just wanted to let you know I have nominated you for the Beautiful Blogger Award. I hope this will be welcome news for you. If you prefer not to accept the award, I certainly understand, but I hope you will visit the other nominees, and they will visit you, just the same. To see more about the award and accepting this nomination, please visit my post at http://wp.me/p2ekZU-E4. All the best!
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Just wanted to let you know I have nominated you for the Adventurous Blogger Award. I hope this will be welcome news for you. If you prefer not to accept the award, I certainly understand, but I hope you will visit the other nominees, and they will visit you, just the same. To see the other nominees and rules for accepting the award, please visit my post at http://wp.me/p2ekZU-Pt – All the best!
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I have nominated you for the One Lovely Blog Award, I hope you will accept http://rainbowbakery.wordpress.com/2012/11/02/gratitude/
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Hi! I nominated you for the Reader Appreciation Award! 🙂 http://starryeyedphotos.wordpress.com/2012/11/12/reader-appreciation-award/
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Thank you, Doodie. I promise to not let this sit too long before I address it.
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Hi Carol – yet another – check http://lynneayersbeyondthebrush.wordpress.com/2012/11/26/blog-of-the-what/
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I came by from Lynne Ayers’ blog and I’m glad I came over. Love the photos you share and I hope you stay strong always, because no amount of lost hair should make you lose your confidence in your works, life or anything. I know it sounds weird that I’m saying all this on my first visit, but I’ll like to share my support, in any way possible, to your new endeavours. Take care!
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Thank you, Rustic Recluse – for your visit, for following me, for your words of support. I have adapted to the lack of hair – but I have yet to learn to love it, although I must admit it requires very little time!
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Hi Carol,
I have nominated you for the Liebster Blog award because I so thoroughly enjoy your blog and photography. Please don’t feel any pressure for having to complete the qualifications for this award. I just really wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your blog!
http://www.ceephotography.com/2012/12/11/liebster-blog-award/
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Thank you Cee, It pleases me that you enjoy my blog, and that you think enough of it to pass this award along to me.
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Hi Carol. I found you through Cee’s Share Your World blog. First time I’ve EVER found a fellow digital scrapbooker! I love your kittie photos. I’ll have to keep checking back. You’ve got a nice setup here! Blessings … Tammy
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Thank you for visiting, Tamara. I hope you’ll come back often. Surprising, isn’t it, that we don’t run into more digital scrapbookers – you’d think blogging would be such a natural platform.
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Amen to that. I get some pretty strange looks from the “regular” scrapbookers when I say I do it digitally. It’s sort of the same thing with quilters, as I mostly machine quilt rather than hand quilt. It seems to be “frowned upon” in the quilting community around here. Oh well, to each his own.
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Hi Carol, nice to meet you. Five acres, two dogs and two cats sounds just about perfect. 🙂
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Hi, Patti. Thank you for your visit; love to have you come again!
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Hi Carol,
I was intrigued with the title of your blog so I popped over from Cee’s Share Your World. I’ve looked around some and enjoyed reading your posts. I’m following you (no pressure to follow me back) because I like what you share and how you do it.
Warm regards,
Mary
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Thank you, Mary, and welcome. I hope you continue to enjoy what I share!
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Hi Carol, I’ve nominated you for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award: http://catbirdinafrica.wordpress.com/2013/03/21/the-very-inspiring-blogger-award/
I hope you’ll accept but if you feel it’s too much work, I certainly understand!! 🙂
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Thanks for the like on my little blog.
DJ
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Beautiful images, great blog, welcome! Namaste. . . . Anne
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An inspiring about page in the face of such challenge.
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Hi Carol, nice to meet you. Thank you for liking my blog. I’m not yet retired but my children are also adults. No grandchildren, yet. My married daughter is in no hurry and my other daughter and her partner are sitting on the fence as to whether they will have children. My son says he will make me a grandmother but he is just engaged so I think it may be a few more years before they start a family. I’ve enjoyed your photos of the cruise. I’m hoping I can convince my husband to try a cruise at least once in our lifetime. Looking forward to following you. Carol C.
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Looking forward to getting to know you better!
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This blog has been nominated for the One Lovely Blog Award. Please travel here http://mpatkane.wordpress.com/2014/10/07/the-one-lovely-blog-award/ for more information and to learn how to participate.
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Happy to meet you, Carol. Thanks for the visit. I am one of those people that can’t keep, p with what I take on, so I don’t look at every person who stops by to ‘like’ one of my posts. (I wish I could. It’s all so fun but…) anyway, for some reason I clicked on you. Like I said, nice meeting you. ✌️
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Really happy to meet you and I am sure I will enjoy following the wanderings of your mind. Regards.
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Thank you for joining me in my wanderings!
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Pleased to meet you Carol. 🙂
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From one Carol to another blessings, so pleased you have come through the other side you are like my daughter a survivor 🙂
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Carol, I love your story. Thanks for visiting and following my new blog.
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It is a blessing to have you here, I love how your blog is so differently set out, unique concept and stands out from many that i have come across, instant follower of you. Cheers! ”)
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A quick note to say that I have resumed personal blogging at https://diptoeblog.wordpress.com
Hope you can drop in sometime..
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Found your blog by way of Laurie Buchanan’s blog (Tuesdays with Laurie). My own blog has been pretty quiet lately, as my blog time has been significantly reduced, but I still manage to find time to explore new blogs every now and again. Enjoy the look and feel of your blog, and your friendly photo is warm and inviting, and the clincher that hooked me is the creative side of your posts. Intrigued by the alcohol painting, and will be poking about as time allows. After reading about four or five of your posts, decided to hit the Follow button. Look forward to crossing paths with you again from time to time. My daily computer activity is sometimes quite minimal, but wanted to take the time today to say hello, and introduce myself. Blogging courtesy 101.
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Welcome! It’s always fun to meet new people. I post less frequently now than I used to – I think it all depends on what I’m doing otherwise.
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Hi Carol,
Bailey is a couple of years older than Maggie. She’s a sprollie rather than lollie, being springer X collie.
I had a mastectomy last October, second strike so no messing about. Luckily as with the first, no chemo, but I had radiotherapy in December 2016/Jan 2017. No need for that at all this time.
Have healed great and you can’t feel the join. Have The Precious in a box in the cupboard as I didn’t go with reconstruction.
So sorry about your husband, but as you say he’s at peace now. Young and whole, and able to do things the way he used to. That’s how I feel about my Mum and Dad who are now together since Mum passed away in January 2018.
Going to have a nose through your blog.
Take care. 🙂
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Thank you for visiting. I think I’d better take a look at my “about” because I lost Bailey back awhile ago.
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Oh. I’m so sorry. They leave a hole don’t they.
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They definitely do, and Shasta is showing her age too. Bad joints, overweight, but can’t exercise enough to lose weight because of the pain. Sigh.
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Maggie’s showing her age too and has had a rough time of things over the past few years. She’s losing her hearing and sight and arthritic in her joints but there is nothing wrong with her sniffer! She’s doing well for her age though.
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I did not go with reconstruction either and sometimes now wish I had just had a double mastectomy. But vanity being what it is, you know. . . Wishing you the very best in many more years cancer-free.
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I thought about it but it meant delays in surgery and having to see a psychiatrist because they would be taking away healthy tissue. I just wanted it done so that I could move on, and if it goes to the other breast, they can just make the sides match. There’s always the option of reconstruction later, but to be honest, it doesn’t bother me. Hope you are good now.
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I am good. 13 years clear now. I thought about reconstruction too, but decided not to tempt fate by having more cutting done than necessary. My vanity has reduced as I age. Thank goodness!
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Same reasons as me. I’d never been ill before all this and one bit of me to heal at a time was enough thanks!
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